What works for you?

What works for you?

We seem to be obsessed with emulating the habits and rituals of so called ‘successful’ people in our culture today. Leaving aside the obvious errors of not accounting for survival bias, coincidence and luck, there is no particular reason to assume that...
Give yourself a chance

Give yourself a chance

People can change and do change. Adaptability is one of the defining features of our species and it is this supreme adaptability that creates the possibility of significant personal change. Reframing for possibility I see people grow and change time and time again in...
But, what meaning does it carry for you?

But, what meaning does it carry for you?

Sometimes, we say that we need to do or be certain things. We might say we want to be more “confident”, “productive” or “successful”, for example. Each of these words will have¬†a certain meaning, but what meaning does it carry for...
Show me the money!

Show me the money!

Some of you will remember that comical moment in the movie Jerry Maguire when Rod repeatedly shouts “Show me the money, Jerry! Show me the money”. Seeing Jerry Maguire again made me think about how the tendency to equate earning power with self-worth is...
May be it’s time to slow down

May be it’s time to slow down

We are increasingly feeling the effects of our technology augmented fast paced lifestyles. Anxiety and mental health problems are on the rise and all this despite the so called ‘progress’ we are making. We seem to be in such a rush that perhaps it is time...