by Harsha | Dec 28, 2018 | Life Choices
Judgements tend to be associated with something negative in common speech today. “You are so judgemental”. “Are you judging me?”. “I feel judged”. What we have to be careful about though, is conflating hurtful and opinionated assertions (judging?) with what we might...
by Harsha | Dec 26, 2018 | Career Development, Life Choices
I was boiling a pot of ginger tea for my cold today and noticed how in my impatience I nearly turned the heat up to max. Some things, just can’t be rushed though. Where rushing has no value or even worse, negative value. This is true whether you are brewing tea,...
by Harsha | Dec 23, 2018 | Life Choices
We make sense of the world by giving things labels and names. Be it people, objects, experiences or ideas. That’s what allows us to distinguish this from that, in from out, us from them. What’s in a name or label you might ask? Well, sort of everything. Because, in a...
by Harsha | Dec 22, 2018 | Life Choices
The grey area is often the place where the most interesting things happen. That space between black and white where possibilities open up. But, it is also where we can feel most uncomfortable. Certainty The certainty of knowing is something we seem to crave as 21st...
by Harsha | Dec 20, 2018 | Life Choices
“If only I could get that promotion next year, I’d be happier,” she says. “If I could just lose a couple of kilos, I know I’ll feel a lot more confident,” he says “Perhaps, if I become the top performer at work next year, I will be a real success”, they...
by Harsha | Dec 16, 2018 | Life Choices
A Christmas tree in the lobby of an office building caught my eye yesterday. It was big, fully decorated and seemingly brand new. Yet, it felt sterile, put together quickly and uncaringly. Two sides to the coin This office Christmas tree made me think of how we might...
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